Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Is Falling in Love One Time Affair- Against the Motion

Love is an emotion, and emotions do not necessarily remain constant. No doubt, the first crush in life in unforgettable but that doesn’t, in any way, infer that this kind of emotion or feeling will not occur again in future.

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We love the beloved or a thing at the first sight because something about that beloved or thing entices our hearts. But it is possible that we may find the same situation in future also. And, of course, we may feel the same crush again.
Then it also depends on the response we get from the beloved one. If our love goes unrequited, the degree of probability of having the same crush again is maximum.
It goes without saying that love is a natural feeling, and it may arise whenever we behold the beauty in different aspects. It’s not that we get enchanted towards only one aspect of beauty. At the same time we cannot get across the different aspects of beauty once. We may feel riveted towards one aspect at one time and towards other at any other time.
Therefore, I believe that love is a natural feeling and natural feelings or emotions may arise naturally without any definite rule or precision. 

Let me not be misconstrued as a votary of fleeting love. Of course, one needs to be united with the beloved for ever and in any way there is no scope for ditching, But at the same time one may have the feeling of  love again being it another matter that he will not leave the first one for the sake of new one as it is against moral and cultural values. 
The long and short of this post is that love is a natural happening, and natural happening may happen naturally without any canons of happening.  


  1. love keeps changing,growing, increasing.
    nice post

  2. Jagdish,

    I do not know if you are married or not. If you are married just keep this away from your wife :)))

    So much has been written on Love. I am not sure I agree with you but it is an interesting perspective. If you wish to know my opinion - read my post - My First Love - on blog - see stories and it is in there. It is not a short post so you will need some time

  3. Very good post Sir. I agree with you.:)

  4. truely...i agree with you sir
    thanx for visiting my blog and your's one is truely nice.

  5. I accept your point but I feel that 'Falling in love once a lifetime feeling'.. Thanks for your sweet comments in my blog..

    Someone is Special

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  7. Sir,First of all I would like to say that you have succeeded in proving your point BUT
    I don't agree with you because
    “True love never dies for it is lust that fades away. Love bonds for a lifetime but lust just pushes away.”I think I have said this on my blog too.thanks for your comment and hope you will visit again.

  8. I got really confused while i read ur post for the first time. then i read it again the second time and it was clearer.
    I do agree with u on the fact that love is a natural 'force' i'd call it..and it drives us on rather then we driving or altering it. so point taken! :)


  9. Jagadish,
    That is a very good read.
    Loved it .
    keep writing

  10. nice post Jagadish.. I agree with you.. even i wrote my post against the topic.. and its logical right?

  11. Sir, I so much agree with you...
    Very well written :)

  12. What people call love at first sight is to me only a crush. It is another thing that this crush may later develop or blossoms into love . In any case true love is lasting and steadfast and is constant like the pole star.

  13. शुभागमन...!
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